Hehe. My 3 yr old has been that way his whole life. If I sing it or cook it or suggest it, he doesn't want anything to do with it. Especially when he was 1. It has to be HIS idea! I think he was just born a teenager. I hate to think what he'll be like in 10 years!
My daughter has had attitude since being a baby. When she was 3 months old she wouldn't stop screaming for hours. She was going redder and hotter so I called out the GP. He said she was p***ed o**. I didn't care for his language and couldn't understand what she had to be mad at. She started as she meant to go on. So the teenage years have come as an extension of her childhood, not a shock or a wonder where my child had gone. I 've got used to it now.